Tuesday, October 13, 2015

There is a wholeness waiting to express itself

Rousseau’s school of thought suggests two paths to the development of the self. 

Amour propre, which is a sense of self defined by the opinions of others, and amour de soi, which is a sense of self defined by personal identity and genuine esteem. 

But as his philosophy pointed out, only the latter was compatible with wholeness and happiness. The former, he wrote, was an unnatural form of love that arose only with the appearance of society and people’s consequent ability to compare themselves with one another. Because when we make comparisons, we’re never satisfied, and never could be. 

That was nearly three hundred years ago. And yet, his school of thought still applies today. A life of compare still leads to a life of despair. Perhaps even more so now, considering we have instant and unlimited access to everything everybody is doing, all the time, forever. 

If comparison were a drug, the internet would be one giant transcontinental opium field. 

And so, our mission is to develop a sense of self that doesn’t hinge upon constant external validation. To take responsibility for our own wholeness. To drop an inner anchor that allows us to trust our own perceptions. Because once we liberate ourselves from other people’s opinions, one we unshackle the self from the prying eyes of the world, life suddenly feels free and light and peaceful. And we can cultivate a self that the world cannot probe. 

Amour de soi, indeed. 

Where in your life are you not choosing wholeness?

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