Friday, September 23, 2005
On the field, La Russa is all business; off the field, he's all approachability
In light of the St. Louis Cardinals' recent division clinch (woo hoo!), I wanted to say a few words about Tony La Russa.This picture perfectly captures Tony's demeanor during every Cardinal game. He's like stone. Dark glasses. Very little emotion. A perfect baseball poker face. Now, he does that strategically. And that's one reason he's the second highest winning coach in Cardinals history.
Off the field, however, Tony is different. Ask anyone who's ever met him in person, and they'll say he's totally real, totally approachable. In fact, I used to talk to Tony all the time when I worked at the Ritz.
But I'll never forget October 28th, 2004. That was the day AFTER the Cards got swept by the Red Sox. And that was also the day Tony's Escalade pulled up to the front drive when I was the only employee out there.
Oh shit.
He went inside without much to say. I parked his car on the drive and anxiously awaited his return from the Cigar Bar.
Geez, should I say something? I thought.
A few hours later he came out for his car. And I decided I HAD to say something.
"Mr. La Russa, I just wanted to say...uh, thanks for a great season. It was unforgettable."
And then he said three words I'll never forget:
"Call me Tony."
LET ME ASK YA THIS...
Do first or nick names change someone's approachability?
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Scott Ginsberg
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Tell ya what, Scott. Why not give yourself a nickname and try it on for a couple of weeks? Then, write us about it.
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I think that first names definitely are more approachable than last names, especially if your last name is something that might be hard to pronounce (like my last name). I also think you can get more comfortable and more intimate with people if they encourage you to use their first name.
When I was in the military, we actually used only last names, with no Mr., Miss, or Mrs. after it. To me, that's a sign of disinterest, if all you do is read my last name and don't call me anything.
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